2021- the year of MORE
The new year seems to be a time for many to sit back and reflect on the past year and make goals for the new one. I know I do. And I can admit it, some of my goals have been more successful than others over the years. I’m not going to tell you all my resolutions, just one. I want 2021 to be a year of MORE.
MORE opportunities
MORE inclusion
MORE acceptance
You see, I’ve been traveling this autism journey for 17+ years now and the one thing that stands out is that we need to start expanding the conversation. Autism awareness has been the focus of a lot of different organizations for what seems like forever. Don’t get me wrong, we’re always going to have to spread awareness. But we need to start holding people in positions to affect change accountable for what they are doing about their autism knowledge to better the lives of those on the spectrum. Autism awareness is good, but autism acceptance is the goal.
You are probably thinking “What’s the difference?’ The short answer- awareness is knowing something, acceptance is putting that knowledge into action!
Autism awareness is knowing that an individual with autism learns differently. Autism acceptance is your willingness to try to teach an individual affected by autism in a different way. Does your school or university provide multiple resources and supports for different learners?
Autism awareness is knowing that individuals with autism can be a valuable employee, with proper supports. Autism acceptance is hiring those individuals and providing those additional supports. Does your business or employer hire individuals affected by autism?
Autism awareness is knowing that individuals with autism may have difficulty addressing their medical concerns due to previous traumatic experiences and/or deficits in comprehension and expressive language skills. Autism acceptance means taking them on as patients and giving them the time and attention they need and deserve. Does your local medical centers and health care providers make accommodations for those affected by autism and their families?
Autism awareness is knowing that individuals with autism want friendships and relationships, but many times lack the social skills to obtain them. Autism acceptance means that you include them in your social circle and help them navigate those social difficulties, without making fun of their mistakes. Are you a friend, significant other or spouse of someone on the autism spectrum?
Autism awareness is knowing that some individuals have sensory issues that make interacting in some settings and locations difficult. Autism acceptance means that you advocate for changes in your work, school or other environment to make those on the spectrum more comfortable. What changes could you make in your event, home, school, place of worship, office or other public gathering place so those on the spectrum would feel more welcome?
Autism awareness is knowing that although autism is diagnosed in childhood, it is a spectrum disorder and individuals will need supports of various types and levels throughout their lives. Autism acceptance means that you include and prioritize the needs of those who may not be able to advocate for themselves and understand that the needs of the individual change as they age. What can you do to inform and encourage your local, state and national leaders to remove barriers and provide funding for flexible supports across the lifespan?
What will you do to turn your awareness into acceptance in 2021?